Vibrators are the method of choice for most women to achieve orgasms during solo play. Clitoral Orgasms are very easy to achieve but are also a great precursor to a full Vaginal Orgasm. Try using a smaller vibrator in the clitoral area whilst delivering penetration with second vibrator; this will raise your chances of bringing yourself the ultimate orgasm. It is not only with a partner that we can achieve vaginal orgasms; most women are capable of doing it solo with a bit of practice.

Experimentation

Women are extremely lucky that there are a huge number of vibrating toys out there. The women at Kamorii love the Lelo range of vibrators as they are so well designed. Lelo have thought carefully about the female body and created beautiful shapes which perfectly deliver clitoral, vaginal and G Spot orgasms.

If you have never used a vibrator on yourself; make sure you read the instructions and test out the settings to understand the vibrator’s capabilities. Most vibrators have a few fun settings that deliver various rhythms, intensities and patterns.

Indirect Stimulation

Most women prefer indirect clitoral head stimulation when it comes to vibrator play. The intensity of vibrators are often too much for direct stimulation of the ultra sensitive clitoris.

There are a few ways to indirectly stimulate the clitoris with a vibrator, here are a few ideas:

• Stimulating through underwear
• Stimulation through the clitoral hood
• Stimulation through the labia
• Stimulation through your fingers

These indirect techniques again allow you to carry out the constant vibrations necessary to bring the clitoris to orgasm. Remember, repetitive and consistent movements are essential to achieving clitoral orgasm, and the vibrator will do most of the work for you.

Warm-Up

Prior to each technique set out below, it is a good idea to do some foreplay to raise arousal levels. Try the Be your own Sex Goddess guide or massage other parts of your body first. Also when you first whip out the vibrator; try delivering vibrations to other parts of the body first e.g. the nipples, thighs etc. This will warm you up and build anticipation for it finally arriving on the vulva.

Repetition & Consistency

When you feel your orgasm approaching it is important to deliver repetitive and consistent movements with the vibrator.

Position

Women vary as to the position in which they are most likely to have orgasm. Some women like their pelvis to be raised with a pillow, others like their legs wide apart, and others their legs closer together. Also try out the different solo sex positions in our Solo Sex Positions Guide; you may find some work better than simply laying on your back.

If you already use a vibrator, you will most likely have a “go to” reliable move that you use to achieve clitoral orgasm. Here are 5 more “moves” to try to vary things up a bit for your solo play. You may even find a few you prefer.

Do not forget to play with the settings on the vibrator, as this will provide even more variations.

Lubricate well and focus the vibrator head on the upper left quartile of the vulva; just above the clitoris. This section is one of the best areas for triggering a clitoral orgasm. Use gentle pressure and make various movements around this area.

Lubricate well and circle the vibrator head around the edge of the clitoral area, keeping a distance of at least a centimetre from the clitoral head. Apply the vibrator with a more gentle pressure when approaching and touching the clitoral hood.

If your vibrator has a smaller clitoral vibrating extension; try using this instead of the main vibrator shaft.