About this Guide
The Cliffhanger Technique works to bring your partner through to a more intense orgasm. During this technique you will use a method of stimulation that you know brings him to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you move to milder stimulation.
This serves to keep your partner in a beautifully aroused state and pushes him close to orgasm several times, before actually following through. It is a technique that requires you to have good knowledge of your partner’s arousal zones, so you know which parts to stimulate at the right time.
Preparation
Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood. Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the penis.
About this Guide
The Cliffhanger Technique works to bring your partner through to a more intense orgasm. During this technique you will use a method of stimulation that you know brings him to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you move to milder stimulation.
This serves to keep your partner in a beautifully aroused state and pushes him close to orgasm several times, before actually following through. It is a technique that requires you to have good knowledge of your partner’s arousal zones, so you know which parts to stimulate at the right time.
Preparation
Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood. Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the penis.
The Cliffhanger Technique works to bring your partner through to a more intense orgasm. During this technique you will use a method of stimulation that you know brings him to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you move to milder stimulation.
This serves to keep your partner in a beautifully aroused state and pushes him close to orgasm several times, before actually following through. It is a technique that requires you to have good knowledge of your partner’s arousal zones, so you know which parts to stimulate at the right time.
Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood. Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the penis.
Step 1 Choose your methods of stimulation
Prior to embarking on this technique, plan ahead and have a good think about what stimulation brings him close to orgasm. Is this oral stimulation, manual stimulation, penetration or some other activity?
Once you have decided your main route to orgasm, have a think about what milder sources of stimulation you can use to reduce arousal e.g. thigh licking, toe sucking, gentle penis rubbing etc.
If you decide to use your hands, ensure that you have your lubricant nearby.
Step 1 Choose your methods of stimulation
Prior to embarking on this technique, plan ahead and have a good think about what stimulation brings him close to orgasm. Is this oral stimulation, manual stimulation, penetration or some other activity?
Once you have decided your main route to orgasm, have a think about what milder sources of stimulation you can use to reduce arousal e.g. thigh licking, toe sucking, gentle penis rubbing etc.
If you decide to use your hands, ensure that you have your lubricant nearby.
Step 2 Warm Up
As with any other route to orgasm, some level of foreplay is necessary for The Cliffhanger to work. Use your usual warm up methods.
Include deep kissing, sexy compliments, getting excited over his body and perhaps some soft genital stimulation.
Step 3 First journey to orgasm
Now that you are both “warmed up”, start using your “route to orgasm” method of stimulation. Do not rush and ease him gently towards high arousal, paying attention to his signs and signals of nearing orgasm e.g. body heating up, making louder noises, breathing quickening, pre-ejaculate. Now STOP.
Step 3 First journey to orgasm
Now that you are both “warmed up”, start using your “route to orgasm” method of stimulation. Do not rush and ease him gently towards high arousal, paying attention to his signs and signals of nearing orgasm e.g. body heating up, making louder noises, breathing quickening, pre-ejaculate. Now STOP.