About this Guide
Preparation
About this Guide
This Fantasy Sharing exercise is all about delving into and discovering each others’ sexual fantasies. Some people assume that tantric sex is all about special “tantric” moves and being “spiritual” about sex. It is in fact about enjoying sharing what YOU truly want from a sexual relationship and being genuine with your partner.
Getting comfortable with fantasy sharing will bring you closer together and of course deliver each of you more pleasure. You would be amazed how long couples can be together without actually sharing their deep sexual desires. It is now time to be honest and get those fantasies out in the open. It also gives you the chance to really think about what you desire and be fully open in sharing the intimate details with your partner.
Preparation
Agree a time with your partner to have some private time to be together. Try and ensure that you’ll have at least an hour of uninterrupted time. In advance of the session, have a casual think about your sexual fantasies.
Chatting about fantasies is a great opportunity to transform your sexual relationship into what you both want it to be. Take care to be non-judgmental and open-minded about what your partner tells you. Keep in mind that this is a sharing exercise and not an agreement to try everything out. This process is all about getting more sexy ideas on the table and eventually choosing which ones you both fancy trying out. Use this guide as an fantasy sharing conversation opener and then take it from there yourselves.
About this Guide
This Fantasy Sharing exercise is all about delving into and discovering each others’ sexual fantasies. Some people assume that tantric sex is all about special “tantric” moves and being “spiritual” about sex. It is in fact about enjoying sharing what YOU truly want from a sexual relationship and being genuine with your partner.
Getting comfortable with fantasy sharing will bring you closer together and of course deliver each of you more pleasure. You would be amazed how long couples can be together without actually sharing their deep sexual desires. It is now time to be honest and get those fantasies out in the open. It also gives you the chance to really think about what you desire and be fully open in sharing the intimate details with your partner.
Preparation
Agree a time with your partner to have some private time to be together. Try and ensure that you’ll have at least an hour of uninterrupted time. In advance of the session, have a think about your sexual fantasies.
Chatting about fantasies is a great opportunity to transform your sexual relationship into what you both want it to be. Take care to be non-judgmental and open-minded about what your partner tells you. Keep in mind that this is a sharing exercise and not an agreement to try everything out. This process is all about getting more sexy ideas on the table and eventually choosing which ones you both fancy trying out. Use this guide as an fantasy sharing conversation opener and then take it from there yourselves.
This Fantasy Sharing exercise is all about delving into and discovering each others’ sexual fantasies. Some people assume that tantric sex is all about special “tantric” moves and being “spiritual” about sex. It is in fact about enjoying sharing what YOU truly want from a sexual relationship and being genuine with your partner.
Getting comfortable with fantasy sharing will bring you closer together and of course deliver each of you more pleasure. You would be amazed how long couples can be together without actually sharing their deep sexual desires. It is now time to be honest and get those fantasies out in the open. It also gives you the chance to really think about what you desire and be fully open in sharing the intimate details with your partner.
Agree a time with your partner to have some private time to be together. Try and ensure that you’ll have at least an hour of uninterrupted time. In advance of the session, have a think about your sexual fantasies.
Chatting about fantasies is a great opportunity to transform your sexual relationship into what you both want it to be. Take care to be non-judgmental and open-minded about what your partner tells you. Keep in mind that this is a sharing exercise and not an agreement to try everything out. This process is all about getting more sexy ideas on the table and eventually choosing which ones you both fancy trying out. Use this guide as an fantasy sharing conversation opener and then take it from there yourselves.
ExploringyourFantasies
Each of you go off separately for about 20 – 30 minutes and spend time with your own fantasies. Whilst alone, think very hard about what fantasies you have had in the past. Some of these fantasies may have been buzzing around for a while and may need some dusting off. Really think deeply about all the things that you’ve wanted to do but never thought you could share them or simply never got around to talking about them with your partner. Write them down so that you don’t forget the juicy details! Go deeper than “I’d love a 3some” and flesh out the details. Build upon the fantasy and create the full scene in your mind; then start writing them down.
Here are some questions you can ask yourself whilst thinking about a particular fantasy that comes to mind:
ExploringyourFantasies
Each of you go off separately for about 20 – 30 minutes and spend time with your own fantasies. Whilst alone, think very hard about what fantasies you have had in the past. Some of these fantasies may have been buzzing around for a while and may need some dusting off. Really think deeply about all the things that you’ve wanted to do but never thought you could share them or simply never got around to talking about them with your partner. Write them down so that you don’t forget the juicy details! Go deeper than “I’d love a 3some” and flesh out the details. Build upon the fantasy and create the full scene in your mind; then start writing them down.
Here are some questions you can ask yourself whilst thinking about a particular fantasy that comes to mind:
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