Beginner's Guide to BDSM "Couples who Play togther Stay together"
Maya Liyer
WelcometoKinkyTime
Kamorii is excited to welcome you to our Beginner’s Guide to BDSM. There are so many kinky delights to explore and tools you can use to experience a whole new world of pleasure with your partner.
If you are a complete beginner, then we recommend that you first read our three introductory guides, Sharing your Kinky Fantasies, Dominance & Submission and Your Guide to Fetishes. These guides will give you a nice introduction to preparing your relationship for kink. Please also read the Kinky Time Glossary of Terms to familiarise yourself with the language of BDSM.
Once you have run through these starter guides with your partner, simply choose either the Dominance & Submission Scenario or the Fetish Based Scenario to put your learning into practice. Accompanying each scenario are preparation steps and the tools needed. If you try these scenarios regularly, you will be armed with enough experience, tips and tools in order to plan your own personalised kink sessions going forward.
WelcometoKinkyTime
Kamorii is excited to welcome you to our Beginner’s Guide to BDSM. There are so many kinky delights to explore and tools you can use to experience a whole new world of pleasure with your partner.
If you are a complete beginner, then we recommend that you first read our three introductory guides, Sharing your Kinky Fantasies, Dominance & Submission and Your Guide to Fetishes. These guides will give you a nice introduction to preparing your relationship for kink. Please also read the Kinky Time Glossary of Terms to familiarise yourself with the language of BDSM.
Once you have run through these starter guides with your partner, simply choose either the Dominance & Submission Scenario or the Fetish Based Scenario to put your learning into practice. Accompanying each scenario are preparation steps and the tools needed. If you try these scenarios regularly, you will be armed with enough experience, tips and tools in order to plan your own personalised kink sessions going forward.
IntheBeginning
Over the course of our lives some people develop a liking for a particular fabric, an item of clothing, or a part of the body; a fetish if you will. Others may realise that they would like to try sex whilst tied up or would like to tie their partner up; dominate someone or be dominated; feel pain or administer pain. These feelings may well develop into a specific fantasy or scenario. It all depends on individual tastes and preferences and there is much enjoyment to be had in exploring the possibilities attached to such desires. Even if you do not have any particular fetishes or kinky desires, there is most certainly a place for “kink” in any couple’s playtime.
The truth of the world of BDSM is that there are endless possibilities for fun. However, when starting out, the following thoughts may start running through your mind:
- Where do we begin? How can I raise this subject with my partner?
- I like the idea of doing a particular thing, but I am concerned that my partner will be worried if I ask to try it.
- What if these S&M desires are just fantasies and I will not enjoy doing it for real?
Do not worry, our expert resident dominatrix, Maya Liyer, is here to offer you guidance, so join us and start reading her Guides and Scenarios and begin the exciting journey into kink.
IntheBeginning
Over the course of our lives some people develop a liking for a particular fabric, an item of clothing, or a part of the body; a fetish if you will. Others may realise that they would like to try sex whilst tied up or would like to tie their partner up; dominate someone or be dominated; feel pain or administer pain. These feelings may well develop into a specific fantasy or scenario. It all depends on individual tastes and preferences and there is much enjoyment to be had in exploring the possibilities attached to such desires. Even if you do not have any particular fetishes or kinky desires, there is most certainly a place for “kink” in any couple’s playtime.
The truth of the world of BDSM is that there are endless possibilities for fun. However, when starting out, the following thoughts may start running through your mind:
- Where do we begin? How can I raise this subject with my partner?
- I like the idea of doing a particular thing, but I am concerned that my partner will be worried if I ask to try it.
- What if these S&M desires are just fantasies and I will not enjoy doing it for real?
Do not worry, our expert resident dominatrix, Maya Liyer, is here to offer you guidance, so join us and start reading her Guides and Scenarios and begin the exciting journey into kink.
IntroducingMayaLiyer
I am an international professional dominatrix and artist based in London. I personally discovered my interest in BDSM/S&M many years ago, and have worked as a professional dominatrix for over 10 years. Check out my website Maya Liyer.
I have had many experiences helping individuals and couples have kinky fun in a safe and consensual environment. This has helped them discover a wide variety of kinks and activities to enjoy. On a personal level I have a long term partner with whom I have built a very healthy, honest and fulfilling relationship, and like anyone else we have had to work hard at it.
By writing for Kamorii, it is my wish to pass on some of the practical knowledge that I have gained over the years. I also explore the mental and emotional aspects of this pursuit, as kink is most definitely a pursuit of the mind.
Whether your kink has been with you a long time; is a recent realisation; or you simply wish to learn more about S&M, we are here to explore together and have plenty of fun.
Enjoy the journey!
IntroducingMayaLiyer
I am an international professional dominatrix and artist based in London. I personally discovered my interest in BDSM many years ago, and have worked as a professional dominatrix helping couples for over 10 years. Check out my website Maya Liyer.
I have had many experiences helping individuals and couples have kinky fun in a safe and consensual environment. This has helped them discover a wide variety of kinks and activities to enjoy. On a personal level I have a long term partner with whom I have built a very healthy, honest and fulfilling relationship, and like anyone else we have had to work hard at it.
By writing for Kamorii, it is my wish to pass on some of the practical knowledge that I have gained over the years. I also explore the mental and emotional aspects of this pursuit, as kink is most definitely a pursuit of the mind.
Whether your kink has been with you a long time; is a recent realisation; or you simply wish to learn more about S&M, we are here to explore together and have plenty of fun.
Enjoy the journey!
Kinky Time