This Know Your Partner exercise is a tantric sex enlightening process. The questions are designed to give you deep insights into each other; deep insights being fundamental to a healthy tantric relationship. The most important skills here are listening and suspending judgment. The answers you receive should be heard and processed thoughtfully. Clarification questions are fine and will show your partner that you are truly interested in understanding them on a deeper level.

The added benefit of working through this exercise is that it will open a strong channel of communication between you. Tantric Sexuality will only develop in your relationship if you are each able to openly express yourselves. This will serve to enhance pleasure and inject longevity into your sex life.

Find yourselves a relaxing place to be together. The more relaxed and comfortable you both feel, the more open you will be with your responses. Try to ensure that you will have full privacy for this exercise. Some couples may find it useful to take notes in order to revisit points raised at a later time. Make sure that your partner is happy for you to do this.

In addition, check if your partner would prefer to be facing away from you when responding. Some people are more comfortable answering personal questions without constant eye contact. Simply do what works best for you both.