The mouth and tongue are the clitoris’s favourite playmates. The precision, flexibility and softness of the tongue; the kissing, gripping and sucking abilities of the lips; and the sheer wetness of the mouth, simply make cunnilingus an incredible treat. If you add to this some of the techniques and moves set out below, your woman will be having clitoral orgasms every time you engage in oral clitoral play.

Direct and Indirect Stimulation

Most women prefer a mix of direct and indirect clitoral head stimulation when it comes to oral play. The delicacy and “give” of the tongue means direct stimulation will be more comfortable. Be sure to give her plenty of indirect stimulation too, as you would with your fingers/hands. The tongue and mouth are powerful enough to stimulate through fabric and the vaginal lips. Mouth and tongue action on the clitoral hood is also divine.

There are many indirect ways to orally stimulate the clitoral area, here are a few ideas:

1) Licking and sucking her clitoral area through her panties.

2) Pressing your mouth and tongue against the sides of her vaginal lips; which in turn push against the clitoral area.

3) Pinch the vaginal lips together with your mouth and massage the clitoris between the vaginal lips using your lips and tongue. The combination of your wet mouth encasing her vaginal lips, and the fleshy tissue of the lips pressing against her clitoral area will blow her mind.

4) Sucking and licking the clitoral hood

These indirect techniques permit you to carry out intense repetitive movements in order to bring her to orgasm. Remember, repetitive movements are essential to achieving clitoral orgasm, particularly when she is close to orgasm.

Warm-Up

For each oral technique set out below, try delivering some gentle introductory tongue flicks or licks to the particular area; in order to warm her up to the full stimulation.

Experimentation

Try out the various oral techniques set out below and ask your partner which ones triggered orgasmic sensations. You should work together to master the best oral techniques for her.

Repetition & Consistency

It is important to do repetitive and consistent oral movements when you notice she is approaching orgasm. You could agree an “orgasm signal” (such as a squeeze of her hand) so that she can alert you when you need to be consistent. You can of course do a variety of techniques and movements when starting out. Most women actually prefer a variety of oral movements during arousal.

Pressure Considerations

When delivering oral stimulation, you have more legroom than when using your hands. However, if your woman’s clitoral head is highly sensitive then repetitive direct stimulation of the clitoral head may cause her discomfort. Check with her as to whether she wants direct stimulation of the clitoral head or monitor her reactions.

Positions

It is a good idea to try out different positions in order to give her a variety of moves for oral clitoral stimulation. There are so many to choose from and changing things up will add extra excitement to the proceedings. You may find that certain positions result in a better response from her.

You can also do a number of oral positions sequentially in order to surprise her with different moves. Visit our Female Oral Series Section to view and practice some female oral sequences.

New oral positions will also be very exciting for you and will give you different angles with which to tease the clitoral area. Have a look through the 50 sample oral positions below, you are guaranteed to find some new ones to try: