About this Guide
Preparation
About this Guide
The Denial Method works by bringing your man close to orgasm then denying him it. During this method, you will use a type of stimulation that you know brings him to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you stop all stimulation and either move to low-reactive areas or even go make a coffee or head out to dinner.
This serves to put your partner in a rather uncomfortable, yet excited state. He wants that orgasm right now, but you will not give it to him just yet. Your partner is therefore in a beautifully aroused state and you can try pushing him close to orgasm several times, denying each time. When you decide to deliver the orgasm, it will be thunderous and intense.
Preparation
Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood.
Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the penis.
About this Guide
The Denial Method works by bringing your man close to orgasm then denying him it. During this method, you will use a type of stimulation that you know brings him to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you stop all stimulation and either move to low-reactive areas or even go make a coffee or head out to dinner.
This serves to put your partner in a rather uncomfortable, yet excited state. He wants that orgasm right now, but you will not give it to him just yet. Your partner is therefore in a beautifully aroused state and you can try pushing him close to orgasm several times, denying each time. When you decide to deliver the orgasm, it will be thunderous and intense.
Preparation
Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood.
Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the penis.
The Denial Method works by bringing your man close to orgasm then denying him it. During this method, you will use a type of stimulation that you know brings him to orgasm, once close to orgasm, you stop all stimulation and either move to low-reactive areas or even go make a coffee or head out to dinner.
This serves to put your partner in a rather uncomfortable, yet excited state. He wants that orgasm right now, but you will not give it to him just yet. Your partner is therefore in a beautifully aroused state and you can try pushing him close to orgasm several times, denying each time. When you decide to deliver the orgasm, it will be thunderous and intense.
Set aside some private time for you and your partner. Try to ensure you will not be disturbed for at least an hour. Put on some chilled music as this will help you and your partner relax. Dim the lighting or light some candles and burn some incense to set the mood.
Grab your, or your partner’s, favourite lubricant if you will be using your hands on the penis.
Step 1 Choose your method of stimulation and denial
Before embarking on this method, have a good think about what stimulation brings him close to orgasm. Is this oral stimulation, manual stimulation, penetration or something else?
Now think about what denial methods you can use. Are you going to just move to kiss him gently or move fully away from sex and go do another activity? This all centres around the amount of time you want to leave him waiting for his orgasm. Some couples spend a full day on this method.
If you are using your hands for stimulation, ensure that you have lubricant nearby.
Step 1 Choose your method of stimulation and denial
Before embarking on this method, have a good think about what stimulation brings him close to orgasm. Is this oral stimulation, manual stimulation, penetration or something else?
Now think about what denial methods you can use. Are you going to just move to kiss him gently or move fully away from sex and go do another activity? This all centres around the amount of time you want to leave him waiting for his orgasm. Some couples spend a full day on this method.
If you are using your hands for stimulation, ensure that you have lubricant nearby.
Step 2 Warm Up
As with any other route to orgasm, some level of foreplay is necessary for the Denial Method to work. Use your usual warm up methods.
Include deep kissing, sexy compliments, getting excited over his body, penis play and perhaps some perineum or testicle stimulation.
Step 2 Warm Up
As with any other route to orgasm, some level of foreplay is necessary for the Denial Method to work. Use your usual warm up methods.
Include deep kissing, sexy compliments, getting excited over his body, penis play and perhaps some perineum or testicle stimulation.
Step 3 Near Orgasm
Now that you are both “warmed up”, start using your “route to orgasm” method of stimulation. Do not rush and ease him gently towards high arousal, paying attention to his signs and signals of nearing orgasm e.g. body heating up, him starting to make louder noises, breathing quickening, pre-ejaculate etc. Now STOP.
Step 3 Near Orgasm
Now that you are both “warmed up”, start using your “route to orgasm” method of stimulation. Do not rush and ease him gently towards high arousal, paying attention to his signs and signals of nearing orgasm e.g. body heating up, him starting to make louder noises, breathing quickening, pre-ejaculate etc. Now STOP.
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